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I'm thinking about leaving a relationship

We can help you understand your choices about your children, your money and your visa if you are thinking about leaving a relationship because of family violence.

We can support you to:

  • Learn what leaving could mean for your money, home, visa, or where you live.
  • Understand your rights and what happens with separation and divorce.
  • Make safe choices that feel right for you.
     
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How we can help

It is normal to feel unsure, unsafe, or overwhelmed when thinking about leaving a relationship. 

You can speak to us to get information and support. There is no pressure to take action. You do not have to do anything until you are ready.

We can talk to you about your children’s safety, money, property, debts, visa, or living situation as you plan your next steps. 

Our lawyers listen first, ask questions, and explain your options in clear and simple language. 

Our aim is to help you take steps that support your safety.

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More ways we can help

Parenting plans and keeping your children safe

Making safe and practical arrangements for your children.

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Property and housing after separation

Fairly dividing your money, assets, debts and housing after ending a relationship or getting divorced.

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Someone is controlling my money

What to do if someone you are close to stops you from working, controls your money, or puts debts in your name.

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Support services

1800RESPECT

National domestic, family and sexual violence counselling, information and support service.

Phone: 1800 737 732

Web Chat: 1800respect.org.au/online-chat-1800respect

1800respect.org.au

Lifeline

National charity providing 24-hour support to Australians who are in crisis and are experiencing distress.

Phone: 13 11 14

Web Chat: www.lifeline.org.au/chat

www.lifeline.org.au

Resources

Separation and divorce

Get legal information about separation and divorce, including when family violence happens.

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Going to court for a family violence intervention order

What to expect at a Family Violence Intervention Order hearing in Victoria, including who needs to go, what happens on the day, and where to get support.

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